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Since graduating high school I have created two new email accounts, started a blog, become an active Tweeter, joined my sorority’s message forum, signed up for Google plus, and just recently entered the endless black-hole of procrastination that is Stumble upon. This is not to mention keeping up to date with my previous two emails and the social terrain of Facebook. Basically, I would consider myself a pretty well connected person (at least via internet). But then the question remains, is all of this screen time really benefiting me? Or is it simply one massive waste of time, sucking reality right through my fingertips and glazed over eyes.
There is no denying that the World Wide Web provides us with a massive supply of resources and knowledge. We can connect with friends around the globe, manage our bank accounts, participate in virtual games, manage a business, find hours of entertainment on YouTube, and even find a “soul-mate.” The key appeal of all of this is convenience. We can find out virtually everything about anything or anyone with the touch of a button and a click of the mouse. While all of this is well and good, we have to remember that there is a world right outside your door that doesn’t require creating an avatar and a screen-name to access it.
We have to remember that no matter how hard the internet techies try to simulate reality, the memories and adventures that the real world hold are irreplaceable. Think back to a few of your favorite memories. Unless you have a highly pathetic life (sorry but it’s true), the memories probably don’t include staring into the screen of your MacBook. Real connections, enjoyment, and passions get lost behind the Times New Roman and emoticons. The key is using the tool appropriately.
I’m not going to deny that if I’m disconnected from the internet for a few days that I am not wondering how many emails I have piled up, what new notifications I have to check out, and what I missed on Twitter, but it is all about moderation. The Internet is an invaluable resource, but only when used appropriately. This means connect with some friends on Facebook, but don’t stalk everyone that writes on your ex’s page. Check your emails and get the business done, but don’t bother forwarding every chain email (I promise the threats that you will die in seven days don’t come true). Sign onto Twitter, but do something with the information other than just retweeting it. Get the picture? Remember you are a human, not just a screen-name… act appropriately.
